Milf Dating: All The Pros And Cons Summarized By Xander

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Older women (or milfs – Moms I’d like to fuck) in the dating industry are a huge niche that has always existed and will never get “old” or go out of fashion. So who is she, this milf from flesh and blood? Why do so many guys go crazy about dating her? Let’s discuss!

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Modern reality has recently started to present mature women as a hyper sexual object for the young guys – just watch latest TV series, internet and social media. But let’s face it – older women were always the object of the first sexual fantasies in almost each man’s life. She could be a teacher at your primary school, a nurse in the local hospital or your first swimming coach… Whatever.

That happens simply because the girls in your class or from your neighbourhood are too young, and don’t have those sexy curves yet. They can’t make those slutty eyes and moves yet, which always attract males who are after the real deal.

My point here is that a lot of first sexual fantasies are connected with mature women and even when you grow up a bit – it is still inside you.

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And mature woman or cougar or milf – don’t know what you prefer – are the perfect dates as well. When you are dating a milf, she will always stay a WOMAN. She knows how to behave, and the most important, she’s not a drama queen – she has enough drama in her life already.

But before jumping into searching for a milf to go out with tonight, let’s see all the good, the bad and the ugly aspects of dating those lovely milfs.

Pros:

  • Mature woman will not bother you with relationships. She will need you in her life only if she is really having a good time with you, that’s all. No complications, tears of love and kids problems. She will manage it without you simply because she did it already and doesn’t want to break her life. The only thing you can face – it’s another candidate for being a toyboy, but only if something goes wrong between you two.
  • Forget about jealousy. Of course, every woman likes attention. But a mature lady realises that you can look at other women too. She knows her level, abilities and priorities. Don’t take me wrong, she needs your attention, but she will not drag you out of the restaurant just because you looked at somebody the wrong way.
  • She cares. Really. Not like your mom maybe, but still. Your satisfaction will be just as important for her as hers. Because she already knows the difference between a healthy relationship and a one-sided game. But of course you shouldn’t bring all your sh*t to her, she definitely has enough of her own.
  • Experience. In life, in bedroom, everywhere. If she likes you, she will teach you to please her (and this will go for most of the women you meet after her). If you deserve it then a true mature woman will happily share her experience and educate you for your next chapter.
  • Independence. In everything. She haы her own things to do. Of course, she will be happy if you as a true gentleman will pay for dinner or something like that, but she’ll be fine doing it herself too. If she is with you, it means only that she enjoys sharing her time with you. And you should respect that. Not a big chance this will change.

CONS:

  • If you like mind games – I have bad news for you. It’s not the best place for a battle. You shouldn’t play with a mature woman at all. In the best case scenario – she will just delete your phone number. In the worst case – the chances are that you will lose something. May some body parts – depends on the lady.
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    I’m joking of course about the body parts.

    Just be straight with her because she will be straight with you for sure.
    Or just find somebody young to play your games with.

  • Forget about control. The only person you can control here is you. You can negotiate things with your milf, but do not expect to give orders to her. Unless it’s some kind of a BDSM session where both of you play your own roles. If your life becomes better with her – just take her how she is.
  • Be ready. Physically and emotionally. Seriously, no jokes. Her experience is a treasure for you and she will guide you. But remember that she ALREADY knows what she wants. And you must be ready to satisfy her needs. She will give it back to you more than twice. But you must give your 100%. Otherwise, she will keep looking.
  • Her past and present. I mean of course not her but her ex-husbands (or a current husband) and boyfriends. She definitely can manage all of them but just know that anytime and any place there can appear some jerk who still thinks that she belongs to him. And even if she can kick his ass straight away – be a man and do it yourself or be ready to just disappear from her life.

Final judgement:

So…. As you can see mature women or milfs are nothing more or nothing less than Women. Not just some girls. It’s not so easy to find a real one to date though. But trust me if you do, all your buddies will envy you ferociously. Plus if you are the Man – and I’m sure if you choose to date a milf then you really are – then when dating comes to an end, you will have a good friend for a long time. And maybe you can sleep with this friend from time to time. Anyway, if you had any doubts regarding the mature women before, you should definitely go for it. You will not regret it.

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