Have you ever looked for a date, one night stand or a sex partner, but struggled with choosing where to find one? Read on to see what features the perfect hookup site must have to get you laid fast. Matching algorithms? Chat rooms? Maybe even some sex quizzes? This article will help you recognize a good place to meet other adults for tons of fun and more…
Yep, it’s that time of the day when you are feeling a bit lonely and wouldn’t mind some company. I have done quite a bit of research to help you choose a perfect hookup site where you will find that partner to share your bed with tonight, and maybe even more – who knows! So, what should you look for in an adult dating site to make sure you get laid tonight?
From my point of view here is the list of the most important features for any adult dating site to have:
- Tons of girls’ profiles in your area
- Anti-fraud protection
- Advanced matching engine
- Good but not excessive CRM
- Easy to use chat interface
- Chat rooms
- 24/7 support team
Why these 7? I will explain you one by one now.
1. Tons of girls’ profiles in your area
This one speaks for itself, doesn’t it? The more girls there are in your area, the more chances you have to get laid. You don’t need a chat room if there is nobody to chat with, right? Before paying for any dating service make sure that you can see that there are at least 2-3 pages of search results with pictures in your area. If you can only view 1-2 first pages, try searching other cities too. This way you will be able to see if there are different profiles in different locations. It is a good sign as it means that the site is not showing the same girls in different locations.
2. Anti-fraud protection
Why is the anti fraud protection important to you? Imagine the situation when you have found some cute girls you don’t mind going out with tonight. And bingo, two of them have replied to your chat requests, and came online to chat with you.
The first one is a model looking chick who is very eager to chat… But for some reason she doesn’t want to do it on the site, and is inviting you to view her profile on a different site. Or she may even give you her “personal” email address just to send you the links to her profile on another site. This is a very wide-spread scam that has the purpose of luring you into other adult dating sites. Of course it’s not that cutie on the picture who sends you these messages – it’s most likely a Chinese guy doing it for 2 cents a message or something.
The second girl seems legit and is chatting to you on the site. She is eager to meet up, but then it turns out that her wallet gets stolen with documents and quite a bit of money. And guess what? She is asking if you could PayPal her some money to get to the place to meet you. Or you even meet her once, and next time she asks you for money for her ill mom. There are many different scenarios, but there are also common features of all those scammers that anti-fraud protection system of an adult dating site should be able to determine.
If your adult dating site cannot protect you from these cheeky scammers, run away immediately.
3. Advanced matching engine
Let’s be clear: I am not talking about psychological tests or long questionnaires – those I find useless indeed. But what you want is the internal logic that will be able to provide you with the best matches without you doing much work.
How is it possible? First of all, based on your initial location, gender and age, the site should be able to determine who matches you from their user database. Then, the best option is if the algorithm is learning based on your actions. It recognizes the type of users you like and starts offering you similar profile options. This makes your searching experience much easier and faster, making sure you finally get laid.
4. Good but not excessive CRM
Having a comprehensive email messages system is extremely important for any adult dating site. You may not find a girl of your dreams on the first night, right? And you may not have time to go online every day and check the new girls who register there. This is where the CRM system comes into play.
A good one will alert you to the new registrations of the matching profiles and the ones who you may like. It will make sure that you receive notifications if someone is interested in your profile, but at the same time won’t spam you to death.
Ideally it will adjust itself if you get too many messages and send you the summary every day or week. Or you should be able to at least adjust this yourself to avoid getting overwhelmed with the number of messages that will get sent to your mailbox.
5. Easy to use chat interface
This one is a no-brainer, isn’t it? Always look for a good and easy for you to use chat. This is where you will hang out most of the time, and get your hookups arranged. Is video chat necessary? Not sure as I have never used it to its full potential as the girls seem to be too shy to do it. 😉
But having an easy-to-use text chat FB messenger style is a must. Make sure you can easily switch between the messages and sessions or keep different sessions in different tabs as you will definitely find yourself talking to more than one girl at a time on a good adult dating site.
6. Chat rooms
How is this one different to our #5? Chat rooms mean that you chat not one on one, but in a group. You probably want to ask why it is so important and how you will benefit from the adult chat room. The answer is very simple.
Chat rooms are a perfect way to find girls who are:
a) active and online
b) have something to say and not just look cool
d) have free time to waste on chatting and therefore going out for a date
You can also ask some provocative questions or create polls and see whose responses you like. Then of course take the conversation into the private channel and try your luck there!
7. 24/7 Support team
I will not go into too much detail here, but just make sure before you subscribe that you are getting answers from the support team. It will be too late to find out that there is nobody on the other side of the phone line after you have paid.
You will want to understand subscription policies to make sure you are not getting lured into paying for what you don’t want.
They have a phone number that works? It’s always a good sign!
And now after sharing my view on the cool adult dating sites features, here is the bonus track. Obsolete features that are really useless and not worth wasting your time on.
Long psychological questionnaires
What else and why? Read my next article and find out! 🙂
And as always, please feel free to share your views in the comments!